08 April, 2018
要做最堅強的
我不會把「成長」定義為「符合社會要求的改變」，或「陷入對生活的無力感」。成長在於了解自己，尤其是自己的脆弱。
了解自己，才能理解別人，也才能打動別人。
“In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, don’t snuff it out, don’t be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than we’d want to be forgotten is no better.”
“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of 30 and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
— Mr. Perlman, Call Me By Your Name